"When the people we love the most fall off their pedastals it is devastating. It can break you. But they did not put themselves on that pedastal — you put them there. Did they disappoint you? Did they break your heart? Maybe. But did you ever see them and accept them for how they really are? Did you ignore their flaws to make them into someone you wanted them to be? Who is more to blame? Them? Or you? It makes you question how you look at everyone. It makes you wonder who the people you surround yourself with really are. If I was wrong about this person what else am I wrong about? Who else am I wrong about? Am I a bad judge of people? I was SO sure of them so how can I be sure of anything now? It makes you question everything. It changes who you are."